I strongly encourage you to read At Depression’s End, a great post on depression from a husband walking with a wife who has struggled with it. Aside from being well done and full of great advice, this

Long work hours was men’s number three big relationship problem in the study I’ve been discussing the last few days. For women, it was number five. Sub categories were “I spend many hours in my work“,

In the study I mentioned yesterday, clinginess or being too dependent on one’s partner was the most mentioned obstacle to a good intimate relationship. I find it amazing that folks admitted to their o

I came across a study that looked at what makes it difficult to maintain an intimate relationship. The study looked at Greek and Chinese couples and asked them how big a problem various things were in

My wife and a friend have been designing T-shirts since last December. I’ve thrown a lot of ideas at Lori, including several that I said would be perfect for her. It’s an easy way to compliment her. I

Mm, too young, too dumb to realize That I should have bought you flowers And held your hand Should have gave you all my hours When I had the chance Take you to every party ’cause all you wanted to do

I’ve talked about responsive versus spontaneous arousal a number of times here. But what I’ve said has not always fit the model perfectly. I have a problem with the words used. So too do most of the f

The bottom line first: You need to tell your wife, repeatedly, that you love what you see between her legs. You find it beautiful, not ugly or deformed. You like her vulva just the way it is and you d

My wife is an amazing woman. She is loving, caring, and generous. And those things don’t stop when she walks out our front door. We share ten acres with three other adult women. Two younger than my wi

When I mention date night over on The XY Code, I usually get a comment that says “I wish” or “We had one two years ago.“ I know some men do a good job on this, but it seems the majority are somewhere