Today in the USofA we celebrate freedom. I’m glad to be free, but I find myself thinking that the kind of freedom being celebrated is not the kind of freedom the Bible talks about. Jesus came to set u

The greatest medicine of all is teaching people how not to need it. ~ Hippocrates I don’t recall where I saw that, but I immediately applied it to marriage. I’ve mentioned how my yearly physical caugh

Odds are your wife has had orgasms she didn’t want to have and didn’t enjoy. I know how that sounds to the male mind but stay with me. The sad reality is rape and molestation victims experience orgasm

Recently my son got an early morning call from an older lady for whom he does odd jobs. Her pump had frozen and she needed his help. He was going to be paid and he has become somewhat protective of th

So over on The XY Code, we’re having an interesting discussion about what it means to respect your husband. After the first post, someone pointed to This particular feeling is EXCRUCIATING for men by

Learning to put out a decent-sounding podcast has been quite the learning experience. Early on one problem was my tagline always got louder at the end. So I started saying “two, three, four” after the

There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream and find out why they are falling in. ~ Desmond Tutu That’s a brilliant quote. I increasingly fee

I recently saw a friend who had been out walking stop at the front door of his house and pray for a minute before he went in. How would it change you and your marriage if you did this every time you w

So today at church I taught on the first part of the third chapter of First Corinthians. I’ve been doing sermons for about a dozen years now. Our church does expository teaching, going through an enti

Earlier this week I did several posts based on a study that asked people what makes their romantic relationships difficult. The category of bad sex was number seven for men and number ten for women. T