Your emotional baggage can be picked up at carousel number 2 Please be careful so that it doesn’t fall onto someone you love ~ Lorde – Secrets from a Girl (Who’s Seen it All)  That seems pretty deep f

Yesterday I talked about abandoning the pack mentality and being who God made you to be. Today I want to urge you to do the same thing in your marriage. Marriage is not a one size fits all thing. When

I happened to see the music video of Sia’s – Saved My Life. It shows a group of girls doing ballet moves at the barre. All of them are in white, except for one who’s in black. The different one moves

How often do you kiss your wife? How often do you give her a good kissing when sex is not about to happen? What would happen if you gave her the kind of kiss that says “I Have to have you right now” w

Around the fourth of July, someone on Quora asked folks from other countries how they felt about not having the kind of freedom we have in the USofA. I saw very similar answers from Australia, Canada,

I’ve always been good at looking at something that doesn’t work and figuring out a way to make it work. I can fix things in non-conventional ways and see third alternatives for most problems. This is

The comments and e-mails on my inconvenience post tell me I’m not alone in dealing poorly with being inconvenienced. Here are parts of a couple of comments that resonated with me: Patrick: “I realize

On Monday I told the women on the XY Code to Teach Your Boys About Women. One of the things I said they needed to teach their sons is that “for women, conversation is not a full-contact sport with a w

Yesterday I talked about how underlying marriage conditions could make us ripe for divorce when we are hit with something a marriage should be able to survive.  Today I want to discuss some of those c

Much of the talk about COVID-19 has included mention of “underlying conditions”. If someone has diabetes, heart disease, cancer or kidney disease or is obese or elderly, they’re at a higher risk of se