Our thinking is more easily influenced than we know. If your buddy’s wife cheats on him, you will fear your wife might do the same. You may not realize you have this new or increased fear, but it will

This blog is called The Generous Husband because I think being generous makes any marriage better. Centuries ago generosity was seen as something done by the noble-born. It was expected of the highbor

I was talking to a thirty-something gentleman and he said he and his wife had looked at every Christian sex book they could find and bought several of them. His complaint was none of them went beyond

I’m sure most of you would love to have sex more days than not. That would mean at least four times a week most weeks. But in the real world, what would it take to make that happen? First, for this to

I’ve mentioned this before, and more than once (do you remember?) – your memory isn’t as good as you think it is! You clearly remember details that are wrong, forget things that happened, and probably

This is more or less an extension of yesterday’s But She Has A Speck! post. Most of us were taught early in life that two wrongs don’t make a right. I was also taught that three lefts do, but that’s j

One of my biggest frustrations in trying to help couples is how often I hear “What about him/her” when I confront someone about something they’re doing wrong. It happens in person and it’s even worse

What do you do if your wife is broken? We’re all both beautiful and broken and, for the most part, we can learn to work with that. But what if your wife is really a mess and it’s not getting better? I

I’m a big fan of Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages, but I feel he missed one.  CHOCOLATE There are exceptions, but most women like chocolate a great deal and many of them consider it one of the basic

I generally avoid political topics here because I find the ensuing arguments distract from my goal of helping couples have better marriages and sex lives. But I think this is a big enough deal I need