I often hear men say something that matters to their wife is silly, or unimportant, or she is making too big a deal about it. I could say a lot of things about that, but let me say this: Some women sa

Most women love to shop for clothes and, with a change of season upon us, many feel they need something new.  So encourage her to go get something new to wear. If money is tight, carve out some money

It has been said men are hunters and we love the chase. When we decide we want a woman as our wife, the chase is on. Based on that, the wedding is a celebration of our conquest. Thing is, your wife do

If you’ve followed me very long, you know I don’t see masturbation to be inherently wrong. If your wife won’t have nearly as much sex as you need, it’s better than walking around horny most of the tim

Following up on the idea that Not divorcing is not enough, not fighting isn’t enough either. Marriage is not supposed to be lukewarm and when it is it slowly dies. A fair number of divorces occur not

Perfectionism is a mixed blessing for the perfectionist and a curse to their spouse and children! I can testify to this as both a (more-or-less) recovered perfectionist and the husband of a woman on t

In the comments on my He’s NOT A Big Kid! XY Code post several women suggested men being messy was evidence of immaturity. Several men talked about their wife being messy and did not suggest that made

Dr. Laura tells women men are simple, saying “If he’s not horny, make him a sandwich.“ I think that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but if you put the things men want from their wives on a pie chart, I su

In every marriage, there are jobs that are his and jobs that are hers. Keep an eye on her jobs and take note of when she seems to be having trouble with them or is falling behind. When this happens, s

A couple of weeks ago I was being internally grumpy about a place where my wife has not yet achieved perfection. And as I was setting up social media for the next day, the following was slated to run: