Five words jumped out of the sermon I heard today: “The tyranny of the moment.” Does “the moment” ever cause you to do stupid things in your marriage? You’re so caught up in whatever you’re doing that

So September is pleasure your mate month. As you can imagine all the sex toy companies are hyping it and there will be plenty of blog posts telling you how to give each other the ultimate orgasm. Now

So this morning on the way to the doctor’s office for my biweekly blood draw, the car broke down. (Catalytic converter went bad and plugged the muffler.) I called my son to come tow me home when he co

My grandsons are wonderful. They’re also strong-willed. Fortunately, their mom and dad are on top of that. I have often heard my son ask, “Has that ever worked for you?” when one of them is throwing a

Your wife wants to hear that you love her. And while you can say it in all kinds of creative ways, she wants to hear those three words and she wants to hear them regularly. If I asked your wife if she

I don’t talk nearly enough about prayer here. I think some of us see prayer as what you do when everything else has failed. In truth, starting with prayer is a good way to avoid failure. Ask God to gu

Last week I mentioned that some men masturbate because of embarrassment over ED, PE, and other failures of the penis. I realised it’s been a good while since I did a post on the most common penis malf

Earlier this week I was at a meeting of church planters, and I heard two things that I think are true of marriages: “A church is not mature if it is not connected to other churches.” “We should not ha

The last two days I’ve said what matters to you or your wife should matter to the other. In general, this should be true. But what if something matters way too much to one of you? Maybe one of you is

Yesterday I said what matters to your wife should matter to you. What about the reverse? If something matters to you, your wife should respect and honour that. She doesn’t have to feel the same way or