So, Valentines has come and gone. Maybe you managed to show your love to your wife well, maybe you didnt. But regardless, you love her just as much today as you did six days ago, right? Sometime this week, buy her flowers, or chocolates,...The post Bec

Ive talked about this before, but didnt have good facts to back it up. The study is seventeen years old, but I think it holds up well. The majority of the women were not married, so that is a factor. The bottom line is...The post Anxiety Is A Sex Life

[Today I am running a post Lori wrote to women, with a couple of comments at the end.] OK, so Im going to get a little personal here (just fair warning). I started out with huge sexual issues when I married my guy (childhood...The post Friday Flashback:

Recently, when Lori and I had a bit of confusion, I said, I heard you say ______. I realised how smart this was as I said it, and I will try to say this rather than You said ______ in the future. When we...The post You Said vs I heard appeared fi

Whatever else you do for Valentines today, please take a moment to verbally express your love for your wife. Tell her you love her, and tell her the wonderful things she does. Think about what to say, and rehearse if necessary. Doing this while...The po

Lori and I dont generally exchange gifts on holidays these days. Aside from a meal out together, a card or a candy bar, thats about it. But this year Im giving her a gift, and I am going to encourage you to give the...The post A Different Kind Of Vale

Do you know what you want sexually? Are you sure? Ive spent years working to know what I really want and need, and the better I understand it, the better sex is. Ive talked to plenty of men who know they dont know what...The post You Have To Know To

Every year I hear people, virtually all of them male, saying Valentines is too commercial, a made up holiday, just an excuse for companies to sell cards and candy, meaningless, and so on. First the facts: February 14th was declared a holiday in 496...Th

Let me say up front, this post is not about sex. I will apply these ideas to sex on Saturday, but for now I would like you to think about the non-sexual areas of your marriage. You cant ask for what you want if...The post You Have To Know To Ask appeare

Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. ~ Hebrews 10:24 NLT According to the author of Hebrews, we can motivate others to love and good works. Would you like to motivate your wife to such... The post Motivating Your Wi