What one little thing could you start doing for your wife? Maybe take one of her small chores. Perhaps bring her a cup of tea in the evening, or give her a nightly neck rub. Consistently doing little things for your wife has a... The post One Little Thing

While I was looking for a post image recently, I saw one that said, Sex is like pizza. Even when its done bad its good. That is a very male statement, and I suspect most women would strongly disagree with it. Bad sex can...The post Does Your Wife Thi

I know that many women are frustrated or offended because their husband only wants sex for physical pleasure. However, I cant find all these men who only want sex for the orgasm. Frankly, if men only cared about having an orgasm, the human race...The po

The last several years, Ive seen a growing number of articles about how lonely were becoming. Young adults have far fewer friends than my generation had at their age. It seems Millennials are the loneliest generation so far. But loss of friendship tends

I swim at the Y twice a week. They have six lanes. On Tuesdays thats usually enough, but on Fridays there are always more than six people at some point. The lanes are wide enough to share, and the big black line down the...The post Being Proactively Awa

Friday was our thirty-eighth anniversary. We went to the Y, as we usually do on Fridays. We did a bit of shopping on the way home. And we had a long lunch at Red Lobster. Way back when, after our early afternoon wedding, we... The post Thirty Eight Years,

The first of the year, I wrote a post entitled Marriage: Not As The World Does. I talked about being in but not of the world, and examined how that should play out in our marriages. Today, I want to apply the same idea... The post Sex: Not As The World Do

I spend a lot of time here pointing fingers at husbands. This is not because I think men are worse than women, or are the bigger problem in the majority of marriages; I point fingers at husbands because my audience here is primarily male. ... The post Fri

Knowing what to say when you speak is a good thing. Knowing when its best to say nothing is deep wisdom. I say this as someone who is still trying to learn this bit of wisdom. Sometimes its a matter of what we would...The post Those Times You Should S

I recently became aware of weaponized incompetence, a new term for an old problem. Its also called strategic incompetence, manipulative incompetence, or deceptive incompetence. Weaponized incompetence is feigned inability intended to get you out of doi