The other day, I was trying to write, and Lori was cleaning up the kitchen. As the future office is currently our bathroom, she was about fifteen feet from me. I have great ears, and I have never learned to tune out noise. I... The post This Is On Me appe

I wrote Sex Without Scripts over on The XY code yesterday. I want to cover some of the same ideas here, with a focus on what this could mean for you as a man, and for your marriage and sex life. The short version... The post Do You Need An Orgasm, Or Some

I get deeply frustrated at all the couples who are settling for a bad marriage; or a poor marriage, or even an okay marriage. Why would people do this? Why would they accept a shadow of what they could have? My conclusion is people... The post Friday Flas

Two of ChatGPTs suggestions for being a better husband were communication related: The Importance of Listening to Your Wife: Tips for Effective Communication The Art of Apologizing: Why Saying Sorry Matters and How to Do It Right Communication is fundame

The fellow we stayed with last weekend is further down the AI chat road that I had gone. He gave me some great tips, and inspired my thinking about ways to use this new technology. Out of curiosity, I asked ChatGPT to “Suggest a... The post ChatGPT’s Atte

Last weekend, I spoke at a mens retreat. Lori and I rolled that into a bit of a vacation for ourselves, something we learned to do many years ago when we often travelled for work. We have long time friends an hour from where...The post A Well Done Vacat

Last month, over on The XY Code, I talked to the ladies about being afraid to want or enjoy sex, or wanting or enjoying it too much. Of course, theres more to it, as shown by a study entitled Feasibility Cues during a Sexual...The post Does Your Wife

A few days ago, Lori used a part of my More on deserving post in a post she wrote for her blog. She got some push-back from several women over the word bitchy that I used in my post. When I used the word,...The post Friday Flashback: The Power of the T

I recently saw an article entitled Im a psychology expert in Finland, the No. 1 happiest country in the worldhere are 3 things we never do. Its worth a read, but I want to use the title to make a point. If you want...The post Who Is Speaking Into Your

Last Saturday, I suggested that focusing too much on the quantity of sex could hurt the quality of sex. I think this is true for most things in life. Your wife wants to connect by talking, but spending hours talking about trivial things isn’t... The post