Yesterday afternoon, I will have returned from doing a mens conference. My wife and I were apart for about 50 hours. I know we will spend some time on Sunday catching up. In particular, she will want to know all about what happened. For...The post Been

Over on The XY Code, I regularly mention the importance of having enough sex. Ive also said you cant have quality without quantity. And I stand by that. However Pursing quantity without any regard for quality is not good for your sex life or...The p

We were recently watching a show in which the hero was a super spy with two personalities in his head. The spy personality activated when he was at work, and the cover personality activated when he went home to his wife and kids. Something... The post Fri

Have you ever let something go because you just didnt want to argue about it? Your wife upset you, or hurt you, or did something you think was wrong, but you say nothing. Maybe you just feel too tired or stressed to deal with...The post Have The Hard Di

Lori and I recently watched all three seasons of The Chosen. I find much of how they told the story improbable, but I didnt have significant theological problems with it. But I did take issue with the marriage advice a Roman solider gave to...The post I

Ive mentioned Lori and I take our grandkids on Sunday evenings, so their parents can get some time together. They call it date night, and really look forward to it. Because we live half an hour from anything, they usually stay home. But they...The post

Statistics on erectile difficulty (ED) suggest 22% of men over 60 and 30% of those over the age of 70 are often unable to get enough of an erection for vaginal penetration. And its been seen more and more in younger men. If...The post Making It Hard. O

Most of us have figured out that something called non-sexual touch is important to our wife. What is less clear to most is just what non-sexual means. Clearly, certain parts of her body are sexual, and any touching of those parts could be seen...The

Being a generous husband means going above and beyond to show your love and appreciation for your spouse. Its about understanding their needs and desires, and making an effort to fulfil them. This can be as simple as preparing their favourite meal or sur

You and your wife are different. You think differently and do things differently. And these differences result in conflict that must be navigated. Do you just accept and try to live with your differences? Or do you embrace them, joke about them, and even.