Get in the habit of asking your wife, What do you need from me this week? Ideally, do it at a regular time, like when you go to bed Sunday or when youre getting going on Monday morning. This is intentionally an open-ended question....The post Improve

Recently, over on Quora, someone did a drive by shooting on an answer I made about Christians and masturbation. Rather than dealing with the facts, they told everyone I was just justifying my sin. Not the case. In thirty-eight years of marriage, I’ve done

Some of the comments on my Stop settling! post said some folks have no choice because their spouse gives them no choice. Others suggested there are times when settling is the best of the bad alternatives. While I see these as sometimes valid, I... The pos

Another suggestion from ChatGPT on being a good husband. Today, Building Trust in Your Marriage: Simple Habits That Go a Long Way. This one kind of stumped me. I suppose the idea is doing little things that create trust. But much of what I...The post T

When I asked ChatGPT to suggest a dozen article topics for making a heterosexual man a better husband, one was How to Prioritize Quality Time with Your Spouse. If you have followed me very long, you know I get twitchy about the phrase quality...The pos

For the last third of our marriage, I have been the primary cook around our place. So I understand that sometimes you stand looking into the refrigerator or cabinet and have no idea what to make for dinner, or where you will find the... The post Emergency

Last month I told you that Good Sex Takes More Than An Erection. Today, the female side of that. Many men go into marriage with what I call the dipstick mentality; if you put your finger in and shes wet, shes good to go....The post Good Sex Takes More

I dont understand people who look at studies on marriage, decide they are average, and feel happy. When you realise about 40% of first marriages end in divorce, average puts you just ahead of those who arent going to make it! Do you really...The post F

This is another post about ChatGPTs suggested topics for making a heterosexual man a better husband. Today, Creating Shared Goals and Dreams with Your Wife and Navigating Life Transitions Together: Strategies for a Stronger Marriage. There is no marr

One of ChatGPTs suggestions for making a heterosexual man a better husband was The role of gratitude in a happy marriage. As this is my 85th post under the gratitude category, Im clearly in agreement with this. I need to make a confession. In...The