Im going to suggest something that goes against your natural sex instinct. Hear me out, and give it a try. When a couple has intercourse, the man is usually all about thrusting. And the faster and harder, the better. This makes sense; our pleasure,...Th

The other day, I saw a reference to a finding from a 2005 Italian study that got a LOT of press when it came out: Having a television in your bedroom cuts your sexual frequency in half. The study authors said, “If there’s no... The post Friday Flashback:

A couple of weeks ago, Lori did a post about The Cost of Invitations. You need to have the time to follow through, and there’s the possibility the other person will want to alter your plans a bit. It’s smart to not make invitations... The post Make Time f

Its been too long since I talked about life insurance. I have a love hate thing with life insurance. It feels like a waste of money I could spend on something else. But its about my wifes peace of mind and her future if...The post Dont Leave Your Wif

We have sunflowers planted in several places around the yard, as were growing seeds both for our poultry and for people. Ive noticed the big, bright flowers make my wife happy. Women usually enjoy things of beauty. Beauty makes them feel happy. If you.

Earlier this week, I wrote a couple of posts about praying for your marriage. What about praying for your sex life? I know some folks feel funny about mixing sex and God, but sex was His idea. Whats more, He strongly encourages us to...The post Praying

Our minds make connections all the time, helping us understand and function in our world. Many of these connections are subconscious, but that doesnt mean theyre unimportant. If were not consciously aware of a connection, we cant choose to ignore it,

On Tuesday, I said your prayers can change your wife. I suspect some found that questionable. I am not suggesting that God will force your wife to change because you ask Him to. But prayer can bring about change. The best case scenario is... The post Can

Do you think prayer changes things? If so, then prayer should be a major part of your marriage improvement program. Ive seen Lori change, seemingly as a result of my prayers. I will talk about that on Thursday. Today, I want to talk about...The post How

Today, Im going to ask for your help. Yes, that includes asking for donations, but thats not all. My desire is to see marriages heal and grow. That is why Ive done this for more than a quarter of a century, and why I...The post Help Make This Marriage