Do you have sex at the end of date night? Is that iffy? Does not knowing if sex will happen keep you from being present or from enjoying your time together? What if you had sex at the start of date night? I mean,... The post Should You Have Sex BEFORE Dat

Whats more important for her to come, the duration of foreplay or the duration of intercourse? We all know the answer to this. Its been drummed into our heads that foreplay is what matters. Thing is, we may all be wrong. A study with...The post Friday

This is the second part in the What Jesus Said About Being a Good Husband series. I want to discuss The Golden Rule because its not as simple as it looks, particularly in marriage. So whatever you wish that others would do to you,...The post Applying th

Im having more and more conversations with couples who are or soon will be caring for ageing parents. Lori and I walked this path, so I know what it involves. It can be a lot of work, and there is a cost to each...The post Caring for Ageing Parents Pl

Do you brag on your wife? You should. Telling others how great she is makes them like her better. Whats more, it will get back to her, and that will make her feel better about you. What could you say to brag about your...The post Why You Should Brag Abo

Ive lost count of the number of times a man who is regularly refused sex by his wife has said, But she always comes when we do have sex. In his mind, her orgasm means she enjoyed it, and he cant figure out why...The post Her Orgasm Doesnt Mean She E

I was discussing weight loss with a friend who is also working to become less than he is. He commented he thinks he has the opposite of anorexia; he knows he has a good bit of weight to lose, but when he looks in... The post Friday Flashback: Our Minds Di

The next few Thursdays, I’m going to share what Jesus told us about being a good husband. You may be thinking, “Jesus didn’t say that much about this issue”. While Jesus didn’t give us guidelines specifically for marriage, He did give us a great... The po

Ive always had a very strong sense of right and wrong, and a desire for justice. Much too slowly I have realised that if thats not tempered with love and grace it becomes a bad thing. The Gospels are full of places where Jesus...The post Judge Actions,

A week ago, as I was walking up from my sons place, I was trying to come up with a simple idea to post for Monday. I saw the sunflowers, and thought about how much my Lori enjoys them. Thus, the Add Beauty to...The post Look for Ways to Love first appea