A few days ago, my bride wroteMy Cottage Garden, in which she talks about her gradually growing cottage garden. She makes a great point about some poor reasons why many of us dont invest as much in our marriage as we should, and I...The post FF: Suppor

Today is Thanksgiving in the USofA. I realise the rest of the world goes on as usual, but for many of my readers its a day of family, food, faith, and football. Not necessarily in that order! Whatever you do today, I pray its...The post Happy Thanksgiv

If Thanksgiving is at your place this year, your wife has a lot of cooking and other work to get ready. Make that a bit easier by taking care of dinner Wednesday night. It needs to be something simple and easy to clean up.... The post The Dinner Before th

How could you simplify life for the next six weeks? The holidays can be great, but that comes with a certain amount of busy and crazy. Too much busy and crazy is a problem. As the holidays add to your life, is there anything... The post Streamline Your Sc

I recently tweeted the following: Many sex problems are really just selfishness. #SexTip When you read that, did your mind go to the places your wifes selfishness hurts your sex life? More importantly, did you then move on to consider how your selfishn

When I did a number of posts on false choices I had intended to do one on false choices in sex, but got side tracked. So here we go… I see many couples miss out sexually because of false choices and other poorly worded... The post FF: Avoid False Choices

A week from today is Thanksgiving in the States. How thankful are you for your wife? Are you as thankful as you should be? Do you express that gratitude to her well? Why not use this season of gratitude to work on showing your... The post Use Thanksgiving

So we spent almost two weeks with a couple weve known for nearly thirty years, staying at their home. They took some time off from work, but had to work some days. They both work from home, so we got to see a lot...The post Love Your Wife in Little Ways

So while we were in Kansas City visiting friends, they took us to an escape room. We got out with 28 seconds left, and it was a blast. In fact, it was so fun, we did another a few days later. We ran short... The post Escape Rooms Make a Great Double Date

I think many of our expectations about how sex should be, are based on young bodies and minds. Were told sex is for the young, and most of the sex we see in movies and porn is done by the young and beautiful. Perhaps...The post Dont Limit Married Sex b