You cant spend the same time twice; when you use it for something, you cant do anything else with it. This is obvious, but we live in a culture that seems to be in denial about this simple fact. If we listed all the...The post FF: Budgeting Your Most

In a recent reading from Bob Goffs devotional, he said as a kid he learned to wait till the teacher was at the chalkboard to pass notes. He said this was not learning better behaviour, but rather better tactics. Tell yourself the truth, have...The post

So imagine with me that your wife was perfect in almost every way. She did what you would like, when and how you would like. And she did that everywhere except the bedroom. Perfect in every other way, but sex was rare, and poor... The post Understanding Y

So, Valentines is Wednesday. What are you doing to show your love for your wife? Yes, its become way over-commercialised. Yes, its just another day. And yet, unless your wife is very unusual, she would like you to do SOMETHING to express your love...

I came across an interesting blog post by a Petra Zebroff Ph.D. She has been a sex therapist and educator for 20 years and has a doctorate in human sexuality. She was seeing more and more women who felt there was something wrong with... The post Porn Ruin

Recently, in the comments, someone asked me about my motivation to make changes that lead to improving my marriage. Thats an interesting story I grew up with parents who loved each other, didnt fight, stayed together, and had a better than average marr

Following up on Tuesdays post, when something in your marriage is not to your liking, you have two choices. You can try to cope with it, or you can lovingly seek change. Often the biggest issue is deciding if you should cope or seek...The post Striking

Last Thursday, I talked to you about how sex with your wife right after you got married probably wasnt great, and you had to work at it to make it good. Today, lets talk about the same thing with our marriages. When you first...The post Dont Settle

Ive told you that shared experiences make a marriage better. And you can have shared experiences even when youre not together. When you see something beautiful, cute, amazing, or funny, grab your phone and get a picture. Then send it to your wife. Or...

This started out a requested post on delayed ejaculation. Ive not written about the subject for years, so I wanted to make sure I was current. In doing so, I found a device that should help with this that is also great for those...The post Delayed Orgas