Perfection is always a problem, and one area where it can do great harm is our sex lives. If your wife feels she never does well enough, she may stop trying. That doesnt necessarily mean she stops having sex, but it will mean she...The post FF: Perfecti

Just over two years ago, I did my first podcast. The sound quality was bad. I knew it was poor, but now it sounds horrible. I posted it anyway, because I knew the way to learn is to do. Some folks would have done... The post Improving Your Sex Life Throug

Ive mentioned this song before, but this time I want to hit it from a different direction. Mm, too young, too dumb to realize That I should have bought you flowers And held your hand Should have gave you all my hours When I...The post Divorce by a Thous

Earlier this year, my wife (of 39 years!) did a post entitled Sticky Note Stewardship. She talked about how a sticky-note where you see it regularly is a good way to keep something on your mind. So why not do this to help remind... The post Sticky Note Re

Lets talk about beforeplay. Foreplay is what you do to get her body going. Its what, metaphorically, makes her open her legs. But in order for foreplay to work, her mind has to be in the right place. If shes not feeling close and...The post Beforeplay

Last week I talked about erectile problems. Today, premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is defined in a variety of ways, but most scientists define it as always climaxing less than two minutes after the start of intercourse. Most men with PE last

There was an interesting comment on my post entitled If Your Wife is Too Busy, Expect Less from Her. The point is summarised in one sentence: Being busy has very little to do with how much there is to do every day. It has...The post Busyness is a Choice

This post is mostly a repeat of what I said to the ladies yesterday over on The XY Code. I think its an important issue, and I want as much exposure as possible. There is a post script at the bottom for husbands. A...The post The Two-Parent Advantage: W

Amazon has hand bells with the words Ring for a Hug or Ring for a Kiss on them. So what are you waiting for? Image Credit: Amazon Shop AmazonShop to give links page Were donation supported Thanks for your help! This post...The post Hand Bell

According to my news feed, the sex act everyone is talking about is shallowing. If you Googled shallowing two years ago, most of the hits were about golfing. Today, virtually all of them are about sex. So yeah, there is certainly more talk about...The