Im about halfway through the book Margin now, and I can promise youre going to be hearing a lot about this idea from me. In fact, I just added a Margin category for the blog. This is not a new idea for me. I...The post FF: The Marriage Benefits of Ma

Were talking about friends, and the fact that a growing number of men dont have the friendships they need to be happy and healthy. When I say friends, what do I mean? I have a lot of friends around the country who I enjoy,...The post Cultivating Meanin

Last weekend, I attended a mens retreat with a group of men from my church. The theme was friendship. The first speaker addressed the sad reality that most men dont have enough friends, and possibly no close friend. And its getting worse at a...The po

I spent Friday, Saturday, and much of Sunday at a mens retreat. When I got home, Im sure I gave my wife an extra big hug. What would happen if you greeted your wife like youd been apart for days every time you reconnected?...The post Greet Your Wife L

I dont recall where I saw it, but I read some sexpert saying working on the turn-ons isnt enough. We need to turn off the turn-offs. I think thats brilliant. I also suspect its not obvious to most men. Turn-ons affect us very powerfully....The pos

Then the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the LORD God caused a deep...The post FF: Remembering the Longing for a Wife: A Call

If youre not a Doctor Who fan, the blue box in the image is the Doctors time travelling spaceship. When you step into the TARDIS, youre in for a wild ride and the adventure of your life. Crazy things will happen, and there will...The post Marriage is

A comment on my When You Just KNOW it Can Be Better post asked what specifically makes marriage fantastic for me. The fellow went on to say he hoped it would give him areas to target in his marriage. I’ve been turning that over... The post What Makes Marr

Yesterday, when my wife finished the dishes, I thanked her for doing them. And not just for doing them then, I thanked her for doing them all the time. Weve agreed thats her job (I do the cooking these days) but I still wanted...The post Thanking You

If youve followed me for long, you know Im all for couples using vibrators to make sex easier or better for women. Of course, Ive had some push back on that. Some find it sinful, although they cant quite find a verse to support...The post No, A Vibra