Last week over on the XY Code, I explained to women that some husbands are upset their wife had a lot of sex with a lot of guys when she was single, but she rarely has sex with him now. Other men are upset... The post Is There A Monster In Your Marriage B

Did you read the title and wonder what I think weve been lied to about? Am I going to go on a political rant? Have I gone over to the conspiracy side? Could it be global warming, rock music, fluoride in drinking water (showing...The post FF: Weve Been

More thoughts on being short or snippy with your wife. The suggestion that familiarity breeds contempt seems to have been around for almost 2,000 years. Why is this so? Some suggest its because weve seen all a persons bad qualities and have thus lost..

As Lori said on her blog on Sunday, weve both been feeling bad about being short and snippy with each other. Its not been horrible, and its mostly because weve been in a busy season. But these are excuses, not valid reasons. As I...The post Breaking

Make a habit of giving your wife two to four word encouragement. Some examples: Youre wonderful. Youre beautiful. Youre brave. Youre so smart. Youre a good mother. Youre fun in bed. A note on that last one: will she take it as a compliment,...The

Seen on Quora: It frustrates me that each time I am in the middle of having sex with my wife she starts to bring up all kinds of problems about bills, the kids, the neighbor’s and kills my sexual energy, and then she complains... The post When Her Need to

Bronnie Ware has spent years in “palliative care” – meaning she works with those who know they are dying. Her article Regrets of the Dying is very interesting reading, and I highly suggest you check it out.  I’m encouraged by Bronnie saying many people ma

Today is a guest post about blended families – a topic that has been requested. One of my favorite expressions is one I’ve heard from various people, but it always makes me smile. I heard it again recently from a coach who was teaching... The post Two Pil

Yesterday was Mother’s Day. Let’s talk about single mothers. That wasn’t a thing when the Bible was written. Had it been, I have no doubt they would have been listed with widows and orphans as people we need to care for. It’s easy to... The post Single Mo

This is a by request post about male sex drive declining with age. All men will experience this, but to varying degrees. Many men with high drives when they are young will have a higher drive than their peers for life. But there are... The post Dealing Wi