The Save The Marriage Podcast

Latest Episodes
Is a Marriage Intensive for You?
Recently, more and more people have been asking about "Marriage Intensives." If you aren't familiar, these are often week-end (and sometimes week-long) events with lots and lots of (usually therapy)
The Marriage Murdering Myth
There are lots of myths about marriage. But there is one myth that comes up over and over. In fact, the trap for this myth is set at the very early stages of every relationship. - The question is wh
Sharing Power
Its a partnership. Right? Right? Well, in any partnership, there has to be a way to make decisions. And how a couple makes decisions reveals how they balance power (or dont balance it). Not ever
Helping or Hurting??
You've been working on saving your marriage... and you aren't seeing the traction you want. Or maybe is just isn't moving as fast as you would like. Sometimes, it can take more time than you think o
A-ha Moment or Slow Turn-Around?
You’ve been following my 4 C’s to work on the 3 C’s of saving your marriage, right? (Hang with me if that seems like gibberish — just me trying to make it simple. I explain it in this episode/) May
Staying Together for the Wrong Reasons??
I’ve been answering listeners’ questions on the Save The Marriage Podcast. And in this episode, I pull together a repeating question about “Should we stay together because of this Insert Bad Reason H
Your Spouse Isn’t…
Many times, I have someone telling me what their spouse should be. How they should act, what they should do… and what they should do, particularly, for the spouse. Rarely are they telling me what a
The Next Phase: Chronic or Thriving?
Has the crisis in your marriage passed but you arent sure where things are now? Well, that would put you in good company! I have been asking for listener questions, and noticed this was the theme
Is It Too Toxic??
You probably know that I'm on the side of your marriage. I'm all about saving a marriage. But does that mean that EVERY marriage will be saved, or even should be saved? No. First, there are times
The Dangers of Emotions and Decisions
It's a false belief in our culture that we need to "trust our gut" and "follow our emotions." Emotions change. Feelings shift. And we can't even say what our emotions are, much of the time. Sure,