Sometimes, just a hint or trick will do it. Maybe you want a trick or hint for an online game. Or even a trick for a better pancake. A hint for a better pushup. - But hints and tricks wont work fo

Your marriage is in trouble, and you know you need help. But what type of help? And how do you know if it is the right help for your marriage? Tough question. And I can't answer it. - But I can hel

I know. I say it all the time. Connection is crucial -- even critical -- for the health and survival of your marriage. - But what if there is a trap... a Connection Trap? - Guess what? - There IS! - O

The Pause Button. You didn't know you hit it. But you probably did. - "We'll get back to each other after the kids/ promotion/ travels/ hobbies/ events/ friends... (well, you get the idea)." - AFTER

You want to save your marriage (or you wouldn't be here, right??). But you may not know what to do. Most people don't. - I mean, let's face it: most people don't do a lot to prepare to be married. M

We all have limiting beliefs. You... me... and your spouse! I always work to change my limiting beliefs. You are probably doing the same. But you can't just change your spouse's limiting beliefs!

Just to be clear, people don't simply end up divorced. They don't go from a loving, connected marriage to a painful, hurting divorce. There are some stops along the way. - As people progress along t

The shift from connection to disconnection happens when people (inadvertently) hit the Pause Button on their marriage. It isn't ill-intended. It usually just happens in the busyness of life. Still, re

Many people tell me how they WANT to save their marriage (they really, really do), but they aren't DOING it. They can't seem to get started with their efforts. Yes, they know the clock is ticking.

We all "show ourselves" in our interactions with others. Sometimes, we truly Show Up, bringing our best self to the relationship. - Other times, we bring an angry/resentful presence to the table. Ot