You’ve been following my 4 C’s to work on the 3 C’s of saving your marriage, right?  (Hang with me if that seems like gibberish — just me trying to make it simple.  I explain it in this episode/) May

I’ve been answering listeners’ questions on the Save The Marriage Podcast.  And in this episode, I pull together a repeating question about “Should we stay together because of this Insert Bad Reason H

Many times, I have someone telling me what their spouse should be.  How they should act, what they should do… and what they should do, particularly, for the spouse.  Rarely are they telling me what a

Has the crisis in your marriage passed but you arent sure where things are now? Well, that would put you in good company! I have been asking for listener questions, and noticed this was the theme

You probably know that I'm on the side of your marriage. I'm all about saving a marriage. But does that mean that EVERY marriage will be saved, or even should be saved? No. First, there are times

It's a false belief in our culture that we need to "trust our gut" and "follow our emotions." Emotions change. Feelings shift. And we can't even say what our emotions are, much of the time. Sure,

Do you feel like you are stuck in limbo? That crazy spot where you cant move forward, but arent ending things? Is it a spouse who has you stuck there? Well, that was the situation for J. He wr

Mid Life Crisis the butt of many jokes. And a crisis for many marriages! I have seen several studies that challenged whether there is such a thing as a mid life crisis. I dont find many of my the

Are you stuck questioning whether your spouse is the RIGHT spouse, whether your love is REAL, whether there is someone ELSE, or maybe your spouse is being unfaithful? That is often very normal. To a

I dont know about you, but I just dont do things perfectly. I make mistakes. Okay, Ill admit it: I DO know about you. You make mistakes, too. And how do I know?? We ALL make mistakes! Especi