Connection doesnt just happen. You have to make plans and create opportunities to connect. This episode shows specific ways to do this that may work better for both partners. TIMESTAMPS (click on a

This video covers some brain science behind video games. We also discuss how Jay replaced his entertainment addiction with a bigger life so he could finally feel satisfied. TIMESTAMPS (click on a t

This episode covers video games and hobbies, and how being distracted by learning things can harm trust restoration. We also discuss how entertainment actually helped our relationship. TIMESTAMPS (

In this video we discuss two addictions we havent covered before, as well as 2 different kinds of values. WE also discuss the issue of faking vulnerability. - TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to b

How do you know if you should stay or go? And what would cause Lori to say, I am more important than ___? We discuss those topics with author and coach, Matthew Fray, as well as what if he never ge

In this conversation with Matthew Fray, we discuss different viewpoints if it appears the guy isnt all in. We also cover one thing Lori HAD to start trusting Jay would do. TIMESTAMPS (click on

How can a guy keep himself from mistreatingor even abusinghis partner? And how do you even start talking about those behaviors? Those are a couple of topics we discuss with author Matthew Fray in

Are safety and trust the same thing? This video will look at safety and trust from different angles, and it also covers why a guy may get defensive over those topics, and What if the guy doesnt cha

In the continued conversation with Matt Fray, we cover a few different kinds of guys, including guys who get defensive, guys who fix, guys who dont get it, and guys who are teachable. We also disc

How does validation heal broken trust especially if he constantly chooses himself over her? And how can he conquer the monsters betrayal usually brings? We discuss these with Matt Fray in this vide