Porn addiction, betrayal and lies can wreck a couple. An addict has to be ready to release his old coping mechanisms. Jay and Lori also cover their experience with addiction and fear, as well as what surrender looks like.

Withholding information (also known as lying) is common, especially with porn and sex addicion. That's why this step is crucial to healing, both for the addict, and for the one who's been lied to and sexually betrayed. - In this episode we cover:

Hello Our latest video is down below, but as an FYI… We will be on a live Q&A tonight as part of a summit sharing tips on managing emotions, disclosure, separation, reconciliation and beyond in an online summit called Renew.

This episode covers: Step 2 of the 12 Steps / Believing in a Power greater than ourselves / The root of the problem. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:09 Pornographically addicted 1:32 Step 2 - Restore me to sanity 1:59 Jay gets self-righteous

This episode covers: Step 2 of the 12 Steps / Believing in a Power greater than ourselves / The root of the problem. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:09 Pornographically addicted 1:32 Step 2 - Restore me to sanity 1:59 Jay gets self-righteous

Here's our latest episode, which covers: -Step 1 of the 12 Steps -How it reflects the steps toward God -What Jay and Lori see in their clients - Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:34 What this season is based on 2:04 Step 1's key phrases

Here's our latest episode, which covers: -What happened to Jay and Lori in 2020, including run-ins with the IRS -A behind-the-scenes look at how they celebrated their 25th Anniversary Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:22 Preview of Season 3,

Hello everyone. - In this episode we cover: -A quick recap of the season on Betrayal Trauma -Jay and Lori's favorite episodes -This season's blooper reel - Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:50 What this episode is about: a recap & joy (and Lori being stu...

In the last full episode of Season 2, we talk about a not-so-fun reality that exists in many areas of our nation: Injustice through Systems of Oppression. BUT we also share something you can do if you find yourself on the receiving end of injustice.

This one starts out talking about the partner's anger at God (it might just be something else). Then we talk about the addict's anger at God, himself… and the wife. And what he should do if he's angry with the wife.