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He Relapses with No Remorse. What Steps Should You Take? – 5.11S
This video offers a compassionate and practical approach to navigating an addicts relapse and lack of remorse, providing you with ways to foster healthier relationships. Join in and discover what JV d
Is He Using His PAST TRAUMA as a STALLING TACTIC? (Signs / 3 Solutions) – 5.10S
If someone in your life says THEY CANT HELP HOW THEY ACT in relationship because of what happened to them in the past, we cover one way to tell, and offer a few solutions. Note: while this video is
REBUILDING TRUST: 15 SIGNS Your Relationships are HEALING from Betrayal – 5.09S
Ever wonder if your relationship has (or if your relationships have) healed from the trauma youve experienced? - *Note that, while this video mainly talks about marital relationships, the concepts
15 Signs You’re Healing from Betrayal Trauma – 5.08S
***Disclaimer: You may have signs of healing that are not on this list. This list is not definitive; its just what we have seen in our work with betrayed partners of porn addicts / sex addicts.*** -
Does He Really Not Know? (‘I have to ask the right questions) – 5.07S
Sometimes addicts answer with I dont know to questions like, when did it start? how often? and did you ever see ___? And his not knowing can leave the betrayed partner feeling very skeptical
What Should Recovering Addicts Watch Out For? (10 Hidden Pitfalls) – 5.06S
Join us as we tackle what recovering addicts need to watch out for on the journey to sobriety. Well give practical tips for those in recovery such as avoiding triggers, the why behind choosing sobr
Friends say I should leave–What should I do? (3 Things to Try) – 5.05S
What should you do if the addict keeps relapsing/betraying youespecially if your friends keep telling you to leave? Should you divorce? Should you stay? Can life get any better if he keeps relapsi
He Lies about Me to His Counselor (“my apology should be enough!”) – 5.04S
In our work, we have seen some husbands who have lied about their wives to the helping communitylying to pastors, counselors, family and friendsabout her. Or the husband will diagnose her with a me
What To Watch Out for as I Heal? (husband, nurse her back to health) – 5.03S
There are many things I wish I had known right after D-Day things that would have helped me recover more quickly. In this video, I cover several of them, and Jay gives extra input from the addict-who
When Marriage Counselors Divorce (Season 5 intro) – 5.00
In this video, we discuss a difficult topic, so if youre not up for that right now, feel free to come back later. But its happened often enough over the last several years we thought we would cover