Coffee with The Couple Cure

Latest Episodes
“Aren’t You Over That Yet?” (his pain vs. her pain) – 4.12S
This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, Arent you over that yet?. - TIMESTAMPS (click on
He Doesn’t Understand My Pain (3 invalidations) – 4.11S
Disagreements can lead to 3 types of invalidation, as well as 1 unique way invalidation erodes trustespecially when she feels he doesnt understand her pain. We discuss this with Matt Fray, as well
One Quick Way to Restore Trust (she can’t heal unless…) – 4.10S
Why is validation one quick way to heal trust? Because without it she will have a difficult time healing within the relationship. This video covers that concept, as well as why sexual affairs may be
What Makes Men “Get It”? (if an affair is the goal) – 4.09S
Whats the first thing a guy should do if hes harmed the relationship, and what can make him get it more quickly? Also what can the lady do if his goal is to have an affair? We discuss those topi
Are Emotional Affairs Actually Affairs? (it’s not difficult) – 4.08S
Unfortunate ideas can get twisted in a persons mind, leading them to have affairs; ideas like, But if my wife were the right person We discuss this with author Matt Fray, and we also cover the qu
Can Lying Actually Cause PTSD? (needs addicts focus on) – 4.07S
Can porn use and lies lead to PTSD? And what can be done when someone says, Why wont you lighten up? We cover those topics in our continued talk with author, Matt Fray. - TIMESTAMPS (click on a
She’s Not Meeting My Needs! (is safety actually a need?) – 4.06S
Are her needs more important than his? No, but as youll see in this video, his most important needs are usually already met. Our female clients cant say the same, and this reduces feelings of safe
When the One who Broke Trust Can’t Trust You (vulnerability) – 4.05S
What if the person who's broken your trust says, I did that because I cant trust you! Today we cover that, as well as the topic of vulnerability with author Matt Fray. - TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Intro 0:1
How to Increase Intimacy (will it take divorce?) – 4.04S
Change doesnt happen until it gets painful enough. Is this true, and if so, what does it look like? Thats what we cover with author and coach Matt Fray. - TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Intro 0:11 Will it ta
Keys to Successful Relationships (then don’t be married) – 4.03S
Matthew Fray tells what it all comes down to in marriage and how he felt right after his divorce. Also find out when he would tell a person, Fine, then dont be married. TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Intro /