Coffee with The Couple Cure

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Latest Episodes

Systems of Oppression & Injustice (7 Truths and What to Do About It) – 2.17S
November 21, 2019

In the last full episode of Season 2, we talk about a not-so-fun reality that exists in many areas of our nation: Injustice through Systems of Oppression. BUT we also share something you can do if you find yourself on the receiving end of injustice.

Angry at God (or With God) – 2.16S
November 14, 2019

This one starts out talking about the partner's anger at God (it might just be something else). Then we talk about the addict's anger at God, himself… and the wife. And what he should do if he's angry with the wife.

Comebacks – The Nastier One (How I expressed My Voice Pt 2) – 2.15S
November 07, 2019

This is a continuation of the last episode where we're covering how Lori responded to those who objected to how we've recovered. - This exchange, however, got a little nastier than the last one.

Comebacks – The Nice One (How I Expressed My Voice) – 2.14S
October 31, 2019

In this episode we give an example of how to respond to someone who is gentle, yet still misunderstanding the issues involved after betrayal.

“Woman, Submit!” (What Submission Looks Like after Betrayal Trauma) – 2.13S
October 24, 2019

Submission in marriage is regularly misunderstood, so this episode discusses what God meant it to look like in marriage… and what it might look like after betrayal.

How is Betrayal Trauma Formed? (Symptoms of PTSD) (Video) 2.12S
October 17, 2019

This episode covers THE thing that can make a situation go from bad to traumatic. We also discuss things that can make the process less damaging for you.

Distance from God and The Different Economies of God (Video) 2.11S
September 26, 2019

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

Treat Her Betrayal Trauma Pain as Real (& Pray Boldly) – 2.10S
September 19, 2019

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

His Self-Deception (& How to Fight It) – 2.09S
September 11, 2019

Jay and Lori discuss self-deception and lies. Why do betrayers do this? Why did Jay lie to Lori? - They also cover some things you can do to overcome these behaviors and get to a better place.

How Lies Increase Betrayal Trauma Pain, Pt 2 (Video) – 2.08S
September 05, 2019

Lori holds Jay's feet to the fire on one of his past beliefs. Then we speak directly to the guys.