Coffee with The Couple Cure

Coffee with The Couple Cure

Latest Episodes

15 Signs You’re Healing from Betrayal Trauma – 5.08S
May 22, 2024

***Disclaimer: You may have signs of healing that are not on this list. This list is not definitive; its just what we have seen in our work with betrayed partners of porn addicts / sex addicts.*** -

Does He Really Not Know? (‘I have to ask the right questions) – 5.07S
May 08, 2024

Sometimes addicts answer with I dont know to questions like, when did it start? how often? and did you ever see ___? And his not knowing can leave the betrayed partner feeling very skeptical

What Should Recovering Addicts Watch Out For? (10 Hidden Pitfalls) – 5.06S
April 25, 2024

Join us as we tackle what recovering addicts need to watch out for on the journey to sobriety. Well give practical tips for those in recovery such as avoiding triggers, the why behind choosing sobr

Friends say I should leave–What should I do? (3 Things to Try) – 5.05S
April 12, 2024

What should you do if the addict keeps relapsing/betraying youespecially if your friends keep telling you to leave? Should you divorce? Should you stay? Can life get any better if he keeps relapsi

He Lies about Me to His Counselor (“my apology should be enough!”) – 5.04S
March 28, 2024

In our work, we have seen some husbands who have lied about their wives to the helping communitylying to pastors, counselors, family and friendsabout her. Or the husband will diagnose her with a me

What To Watch Out for as I Heal? (husband, nurse her back to health) – 5.03S
March 15, 2024

There are many things I wish I had known right after D-Day things that would have helped me recover more quickly. In this video, I cover several of them, and Jay gives extra input from the addict-who

When Marriage Counselors Divorce (Season 5 intro) – 5.00
February 02, 2024

In this video, we discuss a difficult topic, so if youre not up for that right now, feel free to come back later. But its happened often enough over the last several years we thought we would cover

How to Rebuild Trust When He Feels Attacked (“this is stupid”) – 4.25S
December 02, 2022

What caused Jay to take all of this more seriously (even if he felt attacked)? And what would cause Matt to say, This is stupid! We cover both of those here, in this LAST EPISODE OF THE SEASON.

One Thing Some Guys Resent (ways to build trust instead) – 4.24S
November 25, 2022

Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the proc

One Thing Many Guys Hide (honesty isn’t enough) – 4.23S
November 18, 2022

Rebuilding trust takes more than honest answers to the questions you are asked. You have to share what is going on for you without being prompted. This is huge in rebuilding trust after betrayal. TIME