Coffee with The Couple Cure

Coffee with The Couple Cure


Latest Episodes

How is Betrayal Trauma Formed? (Symptoms of PTSD) (Video) 2.12S
October 17, 2019

This episode covers THE thing that can make a situation go from bad to traumatic. We also discuss things that can make the process less damaging for you.

Distance from God and The Different Economies of God (Video) 2.11S
September 26, 2019

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

Treat Her Betrayal Trauma Pain as Real (& Pray Boldly) – 2.10S
September 19, 2019

This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.

His Self-Deception (& How to Fight It) – 2.09S
September 11, 2019

Jay and Lori discuss self-deception and lies. Why do betrayers do this? Why did Jay lie to Lori? - They also cover some things you can do to overcome these behaviors and get to a better place.

How Lies Increase Betrayal Trauma Pain, Pt 2 (Video) – 2.08S
September 05, 2019

Lori holds Jay's feet to the fire on one of his past beliefs. Then we speak directly to the guys.

How Lies Increase Betrayal Trauma, Pt 1 (Video) – 2.07S
August 28, 2019

Women tell me the lying is worse than the sexual integrity issue. Jay goes into the first lies he ever told, and Lori shares what she thought when he'd lie about certain things. He even shared some brand new truth the day of this recording.

What She Wishes She’d Known, Pt 2 (Video) – 2.06S
August 21, 2019

Continued from the previous episode where Lori shares what she wishes she'd known the first time the truth came out.

What She Wishes She’d Known, Pt 1 (Video) – 2.05S
August 14, 2019

Lori shares what she wishes she'd known about betrayal the first time the truth came out.

What He Wishes He’d Known: A Porn Addict Speaks on the Addiction (Video) – 2.04S
August 07, 2019

Here Jay gives several things he wishes he'd known about the addiction... and the recovery process.

Other Sources of Betrayal Pain (Video/Podcast) – 2.03S
August 01, 2019

"Aren't you over this yet?" "It's just porn!" "It's your job to forgive!" Some things told to betrayed who've been betrayed don't help. They only become new sources of pain; new ways...