Coffee with The Couple Cure

Coffee with The Couple Cure


Latest Episodes

How to Stop Mistreating Her (empathy and validation) – 4.16S
September 30, 2022

How can a guy keep himself from mistreating–or even abusing–his partner? And how do you even start talking about those behaviors? Those are a couple of topics we discuss with author Matthew Fray in

What if He Never Changes? (why men get defensive over safety and trust) – 4.15S
September 23, 2022

Are safety and trust the same thing? This video will look at safety and trust from different angles, and it also covers why a guy may get defensive over those topics, and “What if the guy doesn’t cha

4 Kinds of Guys (“can you just care?”) – 4.14S
September 16, 2022

In the continued conversation with Matt Fray, we cover a few different kinds of guys, including guys who get defensive, guys who fix, guys who ‘don’t get it,’ and guys who are teachable. We also disc

How to Heal Broken Trust (who will he choose) – 4.13S
September 09, 2022

How does validation heal broken trust… especially if he constantly chooses himself over her? And how can he conquer the monsters betrayal usually brings? We discuss these with Matt Fray in this vide

“Aren’t You Over That Yet?” (his pain vs. her pain) – 4.12S
September 02, 2022

This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, “Aren’t you over that yet?”. - TIMESTAMPS (click on

He Doesn’t Understand My Pain (3 invalidations) – 4.11S
August 26, 2022

Disagreements can lead to 3 types of invalidation, as well as 1 unique way invalidation erodes trust–especially when she feels he doesn’t understand her pain. We discuss this with Matt Fray, as well

One Quick Way to Restore Trust (she can’t heal unless…) – 4.10S
August 19, 2022

Why is validation one quick way to heal trust? Because without it she will have a difficult time healing within the relationship. This video covers that concept, as well as why sexual affairs may be

What Makes Men “Get It”? (if an affair is the goal) – 4.09S
August 12, 2022

What’s the first thing a guy should do if he’s harmed the relationship, and what can make him “get it” more quickly? Also what can the lady do if his goal is to have an affair? We discuss those topi

Are Emotional Affairs Actually Affairs? (it’s not difficult) – 4.08S
August 05, 2022

Unfortunate ideas can get twisted in a person’s mind, leading them to have affairs; ideas like, “But if my wife were the right person…” We discuss this with author Matt Fray, and we also cover the qu

Can Lying Actually Cause PTSD? (needs addicts focus on) – 4.07S
July 29, 2022

Can porn use and lies lead to PTSD? And what can be done when someone says, “Why won’t you lighten up?” We cover those topics in our continued talk with author, Matt Fray. - TIMESTAMPS (click on a