In this video we discuss two addictions we haven’t covered before, as well as 2 different kinds of values. WE also discuss the issue of faking vulnerability. TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section) 0:00 Intro 0:15 Video games and hobbies (where we invest our time in relationships) 0:39 Stated Values vs Lived Values (“not demonizing those activities”) * 2:51 This can lead to even more broken trust 3:44 Stated values may be about our image 4:21 One Solution: Stated values is the goal vs. Craving the approval of others * 5;43 One Solution: How to name emotions 8:23 One Solution: One thing that would do wonders for relationships * 9:18 One Solution: A place guys can learn vulnerability, not faking it 11:12 Why Matt would “Say it all” now? Practice 11:40 “Thank goodness someone finally said it” vs “Not willing to go there” 12:47 In the next episode: Can video games actually help after broken trust? -- https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website https://matthewfray.com - Matthew Fray's website https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #betrayal #relationships #pornaddiction #marriageadvice