When addicts first get caught, most expect their partner to just move on: I'm sorry! I quit! let's never talk about this again! But here's the brutal truth: that mindset destroys any chance of real

Jay explains many deception tactics he used to hide his addiction. From robotic denials to fake confusion, playing dumb to calculated outbursts, this video exposes the manipulation patterns that betra

In this compelling episode, we tackle the challenging subject of emotional avoidance and addiction recovery. Jay opens up about his struggles with feelings of abandonment, insecurity, and boredom, whi

Jay opens up about the internal voice telling him to confess his porn addiction - and why he actively chose to ignore it for years. We explore: The pattern of CALCULATED DELAY What that "voice of

In this raw conversation, we expose why the lies addicts tell and the beliefs they hide behind increase betrayal trauma. Jay opens up about the shocking justifications for his deceit and the internal

After 15 years of addiction, lies, and hiding, Jay finally found BROKENNESS. Not in a loud, dramatic crash, but in a quiet, rock-bottom moment where he just couldnt keep lying about it... not to his

What does real intimacy feel like after betrayal, addiction, and years of rebuilding trust? In this episode, we open up about how Jays ability to connect has changed over time from fake vulnerabili

I thought intimacy was just sexuntil I started recovering from porn addiction. In this video, Jay shares how ONE POWERFUL TOOL helped him heal our relationship, create real intimacy, and start feel

In this episode of the Couple Cure Podcast, we dive into the complexities of intimacy (OUTSIDE the bedroom) when Jay was in active addiction, the challenges of seeking validation, and the impact of hi

Jay confesses something hes never told anyone before: One way he lied to keep his addiction hidden. (Hint: its one thing some addicts do to keep their secrets.) Hes also asked if he thinks that t