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Latest Episodes
How do Addicts Actually Change? (Advice for Power-Over Dynamics) – 5.23S
In this episode, we explore how addicts truly change by focusing on the impact of experiencing true pain and loss. Divided into two partsone for non-Christians and the other for Christianswe discuss
Will She Ever Get Over This? (I keep forgetting she is in pain) – 5.22S #marriagerecovery
***Trigger Warning for Alcoholics in Recovery*** In this episode, Jay addresses a common question addicts may have, along the lines of, Will I have to pay for this forever? He answers with the trut
He Promised to Never Touch Me Again (What should I do?) – 5.21S
In this episode, we address a difficult question from a viewer about a lack of physical touch in her marriage, even while undergoing chemotherapy. We delve into the possible reasons behind her husband
How do I Forgive with All these Intrusive Thoughts? (healing for the “Drama Queen” label) – 5.20S
If you have ever been called a Drama Queen, this episode may help heal the sting of that label. But first, Jay and Lori tackle the issue of being flooded with bad memories right as you get close to f
What if He Doesn’t Desire Me Physically? (he’s stolen my femininity) – 5.19
***Trigger Warning: Given the sensitive nature of this topic, please proceed cautiously.*** Jay and Lori tackle the struggle of not feeling physically desired by the husband. They explore the intricat
Is His RECOVERY REAL if He GETS ANGRY AND WITHDRAWS More? – 5.18S
Description In this short video, we discuss the issue of anger and withdrawal/retraction, and well cover what it looks like as the addicts we work with recover and learn new skills. At the end, wel
When Should I Stop Talking about the Betrayal? (how you’ll know) – 5.17S
In this episode, we discuss why you might feel the need to bring up past betrayals even years later. We explore what it means if you cant stop talking about it. Plus, we offer advice for the guys on
Some Husbands Choose Recovery and Mine Didn’t (Is that About Me?) – 5.16S
(*Trigger Warning for the Final Section*) This heartfelt and candid video delves into a sensitive topic that some women struggle with: Why do some husbands choose recovery while others do not. Is
How Long does it Take for Addicts to Heal (create NEW dopamine) – 5.15S
Jay and Lori talk about the typical time it takes for an addict to readjust sources of dopamine, as well as why it can take longer or shorter. - Timestamps 0:00 Intro & Question - 0:18 What the expe
Do All Strugglers Relapse? (top 2 things a partner can do) – 5.14S
In this short video, we answer to the question, Do all strugglers relapse as well as the top two things partners can do if the addict keeps relapsing. Well also share one of the first things addic