What should you do if the addict keeps relapsing/betraying youespecially if your friends keep telling you to leave? Should you divorce? Should you stay? Can life get any better if he keeps relapsi

In our work, we have seen some husbands who have lied about their wives to the helping communitylying to pastors, counselors, family and friendsabout her. Or the husband will diagnose her with a me

There are many things I wish I had known right after D-Day things that would have helped me recover more quickly. In this video, I cover several of them, and Jay gives extra input from the addict-who

What caused Jay to take all of this more seriously (even if he felt attacked)? And what would cause Matt to say, This is stupid! We cover both of those here, in this LAST EPISODE OF THE SEASON.

Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the proc

Rebuilding trust takes more than honest answers to the questions you are asked. You have to share what is going on for you without being prompted. This is huge in rebuilding trust after betrayal. TIME

Connection doesnt just happen. You have to make plans and create opportunities to connect. This episode shows specific ways to do this that may work better for both partners. TIMESTAMPS (click on a

This video covers some brain science behind video games. We also discuss how Jay replaced his entertainment addiction with a bigger life so he could finally feel satisfied. TIMESTAMPS (click on a t

This episode covers video games and hobbies, and how being distracted by learning things can harm trust restoration. We also discuss how entertainment actually helped our relationship. TIMESTAMPS (

In this video we discuss two addictions we havent covered before, as well as 2 different kinds of values. WE also discuss the issue of faking vulnerability. - TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to b