Coffee with The Couple Cure

Coffee with The Couple Cure


Latest Episodes

Exposing Liars’ Tactics: Questions That Need Asking – 6.00S
May 23, 2025

In this episode, I ask Jay if he will answer some difficult question this seasonquestions like: --What are some tactics he used to get away with lying for so long? --How did he pretend to change--

How do I Know if He’s Told the Full Truth? (6 hints) – 5.27S
February 21, 2025

In this, our last episode of Season 5, we address six ways to help you find out if youve been given the full truth / signs he might still be lying. We also cover what pressure can do to some addicts

The ONLY Thing to CHANGE is EVERYTING (How seriously should I take recovery?) – 5.26S
February 07, 2025

In this episode of The Couple Cure, Jay tackles the question: 'How serious do I need to be about my recovery?' Using his own history and insights, he discusses the inevitable challenges and pushbacks

Is it Okay to WANT to see EVIDENCE OF CHANGE (Sad I CAN’T TRUST YOU now) – 5.25S
January 24, 2025

Summary: Rebuilding Trust through Tangible Evidence of Change after Lies In this episode, we respond to a wifes question about the importance of seeing tangible evidence in her husband's growth proc

How To Make This Year Better (Four Steps) — 5.24S
January 03, 2025

In this episode, recorded on New Year's Eve, we discuss the importance of having a solid plan to ensure your new year is better than the last. We delve into specific steps for making effective New Yea

How do Addicts Actually Change? (Advice for Power-Over Dynamics) – 5.23S
December 20, 2024

In this episode, we explore how addicts truly change by focusing on the impact of experiencing true pain and loss. Divided into two partsone for non-Christians and the other for Christianswe discuss

Will She Ever Get Over This? (I keep forgetting she is in pain) – 5.22S #marriagerecovery
December 06, 2024

***Trigger Warning for Alcoholics in Recovery*** In this episode, Jay addresses a common question addicts may have, along the lines of, Will I have to pay for this forever? He answers with the trut

He Promised to Never Touch Me Again (What should I do?) – 5.21S
November 21, 2024

In this episode, we address a difficult question from a viewer about a lack of physical touch in her marriage, even while undergoing chemotherapy. We delve into the possible reasons behind her husband

How do I Forgive with All these Intrusive Thoughts? (healing for the “Drama Queen” label) – 5.20S
November 08, 2024

If you have ever been called a Drama Queen, this episode may help heal the sting of that label. But first, Jay and Lori tackle the issue of being flooded with bad memories right as you get close to f

What if He Doesn’t Desire Me Physically? (he’s stolen my femininity) – 5.19
October 25, 2024

***Trigger Warning: Given the sensitive nature of this topic, please proceed cautiously.*** Jay and Lori tackle the struggle of not feeling physically desired by the husband. They explore the intricat