The Refined Collective Podcast

The Refined Collective Podcast


Latest Episodes

Is God Holding Out On You? A Conversation with Lisa Bevere
September 22, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   This week, I’m chatting with the incredible . You may recognize her as the...

What If I Don’t Know Who I Am: Identity, Trauma and Stepping Into the Unknown with Jedidiah Jenkins
September 15, 2020

Is it ok if I don’t know ‘who’ I am…we all want to be somebody.  But what is a somebody? —Jedidiah Jenkins   Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for...

[BONUS] Why Are So Many People Leaving the Evangelical Church Right Now?
September 10, 2020

On this special bonus episode, I’m sharing part two of my conversation with . If you missed part one,  for our chat about first dates, vulnerability, and 3 practical ways to know if he’s ‘the one.’ This episode, we’re diving...

Is He the One?: 3 Practical Ways to Know if You’ve Found 'The One' with Addison Bevere
September 08, 2020

 is the COO of the non-profit  and co-founder of . He also recently became a published author— he just wrote  We talked for SO long and about so many things that I decided to share this episode in two parts, so you’ll...

Healing Heartache: How to Overcome Rejection, Break-Ups, + Heartbreak
September 01, 2020

“In the midst of chaos, there’s always a place where peace resides.  We just have to find our way to it”.  — Toni Collier   Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this...

Why Does the Church Worship Marriage?
August 25, 2020

Today is a big day, friends, because I’m chatting with ! A few years ago Jamie had me on her podcast . AND it was the first time I ever opened up about my faith and singleness. It was astonishing to hear the response to that conversation...

[BONUS] Stop Saying "Sorry": How to Lead Like a BOSS
August 23, 2020

is a nationally renowned cardiac anesthesiologist and has witnessed gender-bias in her field. She’s also seen women withdraw and conceal their leadership. We ended up having a completely different conversation than we had planned because we started...

Is My Sexual Desire Sinful?
August 19, 2020

I am so grateful to The Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   I never thought I’d be talking about things like sexual desire and...

What Dating in 2020 is Really Like…
August 11, 2020

This week, I two guests…double the fun y’all! I have the pleasure of talking to Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, the podcast hosts of . When they began, it was a whole lot of ‘dating sucks,’ but they’ve transitioned out of that to focusing...

What Does Being A Man Feel Like?
August 04, 2020

I have the absolute pleasure of chatting with pastor, author, and host of the , Sam Collier. He just released a book called  all about turning messes into miracles and how God redeemed stories in his life. We chat all about finding our own...