The Refined Collective Podcast

The Refined Collective Podcast


Latest Episodes

That’s What He Said: Where Are All the Single Godly Men? With Ben Stuart
November 17, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re...

Another One Bites the Dust: Sex Scandals in the Evangelical Church
November 11, 2020

Trigger warning (and kiddo warning): As the episode title suggests, I am going to be talking about some hard topics and sharing some vulnerable stories.    It’s time to acknowledge the elephant in the room It feels dismissive to do a...

That's What He Said: Is Asking for a Set-Up Desperate? with Matt Jones
November 03, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re...

Faith + Politics Part II: Can I Love My Neighbor Through My Politics? with Stephanie Summers
October 27, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   On Monday, I had a conversation with speaker and author on and how to have a...

[BONUS] Faith + Politics Part I: Why Pro-Birth is Not Enough with Ashley Abercrombie
October 25, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   This week, we’re taking a break from the series, because it has been on my heart to...

That’s What He Said: How to Create a Culture of Honor in Dating with Jeff Johnson
October 20, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re...

That’s What He Said: How to Let Him Know You’re Into Him with Jarod Nickerson
October 13, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re...

That’s What He Said: DM Dating // Going from DMs to Real Life with Jamal Miller
October 06, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!    It’s been 2 and a half years since I launched (but don’t worry, we’re not going...

Dream Interpretation with Andi Andrew
September 29, 2020

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!    is a dear friend of mine and I am glad to finally have her on the podcast! She is...

[BONUS] The Messy Middle: When Your Shame Becomes Your Redemption with Mary Marantz
September 27, 2020

“She kept going until she looked good on paper, but it never made her feel more real.” -Mary Marantz   How human is it to want something, try and fit the bill, and then finally fit the bill and feel like you’re suffocating?  and I talk...