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When You Feel BURNED OUT
How do you seek God when you don’t know if you believe the way you used to? How do you move forward in your faith when it feels like it’s in shambles? How do you experience God outside of Sunday chur
Deconstruction Part III: What Would Jesus Do?
This is Part III of a series on deconstruction. In Part I, we ask “What exactly is deconstruction + how do I know if I’m experiencing it?” In Part II, we ask “Can I completely deconstruct my faith and
Deconstruction Part II: Am I Still a Christian?
This is Part II of a series on deconstruction— if you missed Part I, . In Part I, we ask what exactly is deconstruction + how do I know if I’m experiencing it, and the resources that have helped me in
Deconstruction Part I: What Is It + How Do I Know I’m Experiencing It?
This week, we’re stepping into a series on deconstruction. I avoided talking about this in depth on the podcast before, because I am no expert. When I polled my Instagram audience, 76% said they are c
I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet with Shauna Niequist
I am completely fangirling over today’s podcast guest— I have read all of her books over the years and I can’t wait for you to get to know her. Shauna Niequist is the NYT Bestselling author of Cold Ta
Sex Ed 101: Vibrators, Positions + Oral… OH MY! with Dr. Celeste Holbrook
Our favorite sexologist, Dr. Celeste Holbrook, is back on the podcast to give you some more sex education! As many of you know, I spent a lot of time coming to terms with the shame I felt around my se
He Said/She Said: Submission with Manwell Reyes
In episode 170 of TRC, Manwell Reyes said “I love strong women but they come with a lot of pride and you’re gonna have to argue them into submission.” To say I was uncomfortable with that comment is
Dear Diary: Am I a Good Kisser? with Tutti del Monte
This week my bestie, Tutti del Monte, is returning for another Dear Diary episode. This time, instead of spending the full episode reading old diary entries, we’re chatting about things we chat about
Ask Kat: Tithing During Deconstruction? Faith Compatibility in Dating + More
Welcome back to the Ask Kat series! It’s basically like my Mentor Monday IG story series (which you can keep up with here), but this is the first time where you get to send in an audio file of your qu
Dear Diary: Excerpts from my Middle School Journal with Tutti del Monte
Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!! Today’s guest is my best friend, Sara del Monte,