The Money Advantage Podcast
Leaving an Inheritance to My Great-Grandchildren
Do you want to give your kids the best possible chance at life, but you’re afraid of spoiling them, or worse? Are you concerned that leaving an inheritance will only end in disaster? Learn why "leaving an inheritance to my great-grandchildren" is a good thing and how to do it.
Many parents are undecided about whether they want to leave an inheritance to their children. They fear raising ungrateful “trust fund babies” or leaving their kids with money they cannot possibly be good stewards of. Some parents didn’t receive an inheritance at all, so they don’t think their own children could possibly need it.
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But what if you could leave an inheritance not only to your children but your grandchildren, and even your great-grandchildren? It’s not about how much money you have, it’s about how you prepare your children to take good care of that money and become value creators in their own right.
Today, we’re talking about how the Marshall family approaches money and inheritance, and how you can begin preparing your kids to be great stewards of your legacy now and later. Learn how and why I am leaving an inheritance to my great-grandchildren, and you can too. Tune in now!
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The Inheritance Spectrum
Leaving an inheritance to your children or grandchildren can be a tricky subject to navigate. There are many pros and cons to both leaving or not leaving an inheritance that has a lot to do with HOW you go about it. In our case, we think inheritance is a spectrum of sorts. On one end, you’ve got those who are just dumping money on the next generation without much preparation or care. On the other side of the spectrum, you have people who are intentionally withholding an inheritance for various reasons. Then, you have everything in between.
The side that is against leaving an inheritance generally comes from two schools of thought. Some people believe that they weren’t left anything, and so their children don’t need it either. They want to be selfish with their money, and they want their kids to figure it out on their own. The other camp is the parents who don’t wish to ruin their kids by spoiling them or leaving them with a cushy life without developing the work ethic or business savvy to keep it.
Both sides of this spectrum are pretty extreme and can be damaging. There’s a middle ground that we advocate for that can actually ensure that your legacy lasts for generations, and that’s by building something to leave your children while also raising them to be good stewards of it. This could include involving your kids in the family business, teaching them good money principles, and making sure that they know how to continue growing their assets. By doing this, you create a generation that can do the same with their children so that many generations down the line your family is still prospering.
[09:50] “It’s not the money that causes the problems. The challenge is money brings up all of this emotion… we attach it to our identity, our sense of self-worth.”
The Marshall Family Values
One of my family’s values is freedom. Most people conjure up the same mental image of freedom, but there are actually two major meanings of the word freedom when we go back to Hebrews in scripture. There’s a good form of freedom and a bad form of freedom. The way that most people conceptualize freedom is to be free FROM something—for example, freedom from obligations. This is why many people think of retirement as one of the ultimate freedoms because they won’t be tied down or expected to do anything.
The other kind of freedom is the freedom to choose—not to be free of obligations, but to pick the obligations that matter to you and develop accordingly. This choice is about service,