Last week I told you a bit about who I am. Today I want to tell you what I believe. I think it’s important to know what those speaking into our lives believe because it colours what they say. I’ve rea

A couple of days ago I talked about how adversity helped our marriage by teaching us tools that have continued to serve us well. The same can be true of sexual problems, but sexual adversity is more l

Last week I talked about how your shame is hurting your marriage. Shame on the part of your wife is just as harmful. What’s more, it seems that women are more likely to take on shame and more likely t

So for the last month, I’ve been podcasting from the dining room table of an RV. That is a long way from an ideal studio. I know how to build a proper room for recording, but we don’t have the space.

I was recently looking over the 100 most viewed TGH posts for the last year. About 90% of them were about sex. I do one sex post a week, on Saturday, and the Friday Flashback is about sex about half t

Recently on Quora, I saw a question about a political issue that started with a totally false claim about “the other side”. There were fifty plus answers when I saw it and more than eighty per cent of

When your wife needs your help or wants a moment of your time, how often do say “Not now” or otherwise ask her to wait a while? Let me ask you, if she was naked and pointing to the bedroom, would you

This was the very first post I ran, back in July of 2001. It remains popular and is requested from time to time. I’ve not run it in almost five years, so here is it again. Do you find it difficult to

I want you to imagine something with me. You need to check something on the Interwebs. Your phone is in the other room, but your wife’s laptop is right there. When you pull up the browser you see the

I am of the opinion that shame is rarely (never?) from God and in no way helpful to us. I think the Spirit of God brings conviction, while condemnation comes from man or Satan. Shame seems, to me, to