In The Orgasm Gap, a recent Knowing Her Sexually podcast, Chris said, “My orgasm is not my husband levelling up a game.” It’s a great comment and it shows how we can blow it when we apply our sexual r

Some husbands seem to expect one good day, or one kind act, to wipe out days, weeks, months, or even years of unloving behaviour, unfair treatment, rudeness,  or being uncaring. Let me share a secret

Most of our decisions are driven by love or fear. Figure out what’s driving you, then decide what you’ll do. ~ Live in Grace, Walk in Love: A 365-Day Journey by Bog Goff I think that statement is rath

I’ve written a lot about modesty over the last 25 years and today I disagree with a good deal of what I said early on. I realise now what I said years ago was coloured by my own sins and struggles. Wh

EQ, or emotional intelligence, is a concept some have dismissed as pseudo-psychology. While some of what has been written may fall into that category, the idea does address a real thing that should ma

This week send your wife a loving text every day. If she likes it, repeated next week. BTW, bonus points for emojis.

The other day I came across a T-shirt that showed a dog running wild and the words “Live like someone left the gate open.”  I live in the country where most of the dogs run free and those who don’t fi

Years ago I asked Lori why we never had sex on Tuesdays. She didn’t have to think to answer with “It’s laundry day.” At the time we had a teenage daughter, a toddler son, and I was working landscape a

Some will see this as self-serving, and I suppose it is. However, I would never state it this strongly if it was just about me. I see a large and growing need and I feel I must call your attention to

You’ve probably heard of what is being called the Great Resignation, or the Big Quit. It started in April of last year, with recorded numbers of people resigning from their jobs. By year’s end, 33 mil