I was talking with a fellow who is remarried after a less than wonderful first marriage. He said he felt a bit guilty about doing things for his new wife he would not have done for the last one. He un

You are totally replaceable at work. You’re not replaceable at home. Home is your real life. Always keep that perspective. ~ Internet Image That’s simple and brilliant. When we lose that perspective o

I’ve heard a lot of wives complain their husband never dresses up when they go out. And I’ve seen plenty of decked-out wives with guys in jeans and a T-shirt. Buy a reasonably dressy shirt or two to w

Over on the XY Code, I mentioned I came across a lingerie ad on a Bible site while working on a sermon. Then today while reading an article on the website of a well-known Christian magazine, I saw ads

Have you ever heard of Rat Park? Canadian psychologist Bruce K. Alexander built it in the late ’70s to test a theory about drug use.  You’ve probably heard about rats that will ignore plain water and

What would sex be like if you did exactly what she wanted? If you’re thinking “That would mean sex once a month or less” this one is not for you. For the rest of us, how about making it all about her

It’s amazing how unique each person is. But we don’t usually realise how true this is. As kids, we assume everyone is like us. Then as we get older and find we’re not the same as others, we may worry

I was at church in the park on Sunday. A couple near us had lost their shade and Lori invited them to move to our canopy. The wife got up, paper plate full of food in hand, and brought her camp chair

Do you know how to provide your wife with comfort and care? Women are a bit different from men about these things and, of course, each woman is unique. It’s worth figuring out what she wants when she

I opened the car door for my wife this morning. That’s not rare for me, but I realised how infrequently I see any other men do the same for their wife or girlfriend. Acting like a gentleman with your