Words have power. Proverbs 18:21 tells us that, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” I see a lot of damage done in marriages by words. What I find especially sad is when confusion about the meaning of a word causes... The post Every Couple Has

Have you ever not asked for sex because you know you have not earned it? Either you have not done what you think you must to be entitled to sex, or you think you have done too many of the things that mean you...The post Beyond Transactional Sex: Nurturi

Couples deal with their mutual desire for control in a variety of ways, most of which are poor solutions, not resulting in either being very happy with the situation. My side, your side: Life is divided into areas, with each area being under the... The po

I rarely suggest you keep secrets from your wife, but Id like to suggest you make a secret honey do list. Use it to make sure you do the things she wants and needs from you. In addition to the things she has asked...The post The Secret Honey-Do List fir

Last Friday, we joined some friends for some music in the park. We shared a picnic dinner, and had a blast. At one point, an older gentleman took his wife across the street to dance. He wasnt trying to grab the spotlight, he was...The post Dance Like N

Friends of ours are celebrating their fortieth anniversary. They got a room downtown at a very nice historic hotel that has been beautifully restored. They will wander around down town, then have a meal at the wonderful hotel restaurant. Celebrating doesn

Yesterday, I talked to the woman on the XY Code about the words they use for sex. I suggested men dont want their wife using the same words she uses with the kids, and most are not thrilled with cold, clinical words like vulva...The post Do The Words