I saw a study that looked at how stimulating various parts of a woman’s anatomy showed up in her brain. The researchers were surprised that stimulation of the nipples causes the area of the brain associated with the genitals to respond. The researchers sa

This is another post based on information from When Baby Makes Three, the 2011 State of Our Unions a report from the National Marriage Project. The report has some encouraging things to say about the importance of faith, and more specifically shared faith

Gatekeeping happens in areas other than sex. Where in your marriage are you a gatekeeper? #MarriageQuestion ~ TMB Twitter The word gatekeeper is usually associated with sex. But it simply means limiting or preventing access, and that can be done with many

You do certain things for your wife because you love her and want her to be happy. This is right and proper. What do you NOT do for her? Much of what makes a marriage good is what we don’t do because we know... The post What Do You NOT DO For Her? appeare

I recall being in a meeting where one woman said far more than she needed to say. As I left, a fellow who was thirty said to me “She just needs to feel heard.” I wish I’d been that wise at his age! I’m... The post The Need To Be Heard appeared first on Th

It looks like we’re going to make it through September without a freeze – a very unusual thing for us. But it is getting cooler and soon all of us north of the equator will have whatever passes for cold weather for our location.... The post Give Her A Coo

Do you remember the What Would Jesus Do fad of the 1990s? I always thought “what would Jesus have me do” would be a better question, but WWJHMD didn’t make as catchy an acronym. I think asking ourselves what Jesus would have us do... The post WWJD – 2022

Yesterday I told you that a good sex life is important to having a happy, healthy marriage. Sadly many couples let their sex life die because of problems they could work through or around if they made an effort. This is fresh on my... The post Don’t Let t

This is another post based on information from When Baby Makes Three, the 2011 State of Our Unions a report from the National Marriage Project. The study found that good sex is important for a good marriage. Specifically “above average sexual satisfaction

My XY Code post for yesterday was a rewrite of a post I first did seven years ago. As I reworked it I was shocked at the number of trigger words and phrases it contained. Most were triggers for women and a few for... The post Does Your Mouth Need a Trigge