In the summer of 1997, Lori and I started posting on AOLs Christianity Online Message Boards. We primarily posted in the married sex and romance forums. Because of our journey and a lot of reading, we knew a good deal about these things and...The post T

I ran across an interesting study trying to discern what affects a womans arousal, desire, orgasm, and sexual satisfaction. The hypothesis was a womans cycle would have a significant impact. This was not found in the study, but ovulation was not detecte

It seems we live in a world that looks down on different. Even in so-called open-minded circles, only certain differences are tolerated and even fewer are praised. What about your marriage are you open to different? Do you and your wife allow each

Yesterday over on The XY Code, I went on a little rant about folks who make life difficult for their grown married children. Because of what Lori and I do, weve heard a lot of horror stories about parents who wont give the couple...The post Being and H

This is not a marriage post, but it is something you should discuss with your wife before you implement it. As background, I grew up in the South where hugging is a big deal. Some men hugged me, as did many women. Some wanted... The post The Gift of Human

Ive been watching the slow-motion train wreck of Elon Musk trying to run Twitter. Musk is unquestionably a very smart guy. As far as schooling he has Bachelors degrees in physics and economics. But he has taught himself a great deal about electric cars.

Its time once again for my annual rant about the holidays. I happen to love the holidays. Thanksgiving and Christmas are great times with family and on New Years day, we watch all of the extended versions of The Lord of the Rings with...The post Protec

If your marriage is stuck you can either try something new or wait for your spouse to try something new. #MarriageTip ~ TMB Twitter No one likes to change. But if you dont like how something is, making a change is the only way...The post Will You Wait,

So guys, when you make love with your wife, are you a generous lover? This is tricky because what would make a man a generous lover for one woman would not make him a generous lover for many other women. Even worse, what your... The post Are You A Generou

We all hate being on the short end of double standards. And we all do it to other folks. One easily missed double standard is how we excuse ourselves and others due to being tired, stressed, or insanely busy. Most of us give ourselves... The post Friday F