On the way home from work, stop at a grocery store with an in-store bakery and buy one or two of their fresh made decedent desserts. Most of the great ones will be in the refrigerator case. After the kids are in bed, serve...The post Because You Are Swe

Yesterday over on The XY Code I told the women about a study that found that men see visible nipple erection through clothing as a sign of increased sexuality, and they make assumptions about such a woman’s behaviour and interests. They also make decision

Repeat after me: I am sometimes difficult. I am sometimes rude, sometimes short-tempered, sometimes impatient, and sometimes grumpy. And sometimes the words coming out of my mouth are absolutely unintelligible to anyone not living inside my head. If tha

Why we do what we do matters a great deal for a number of reasons. One of those reasons is that knowing why we do something makes it far more likely we can change our behaviour. Some of the reasons we do what we... The post Why You Must Know Why appeared

When we lived in Austin, any temperature under 50 F (10 C ) required a jacket, and at freezing you needed a coat. Now that we live less than 100 miles (161 km) from Canada, I dont bother with anything if its at least...The post Is Acclimation Hurting

Remember when your kids minor injuries could be fixed by kissing it better? And disappointment and fear could be fixed with a hug. The power behind those things was you letting the child know you loved and cared for them. This power works for...The po

I ran across a study that found being sexually aroused increased both men and womens belief that women say no to sex when they mean yes. This should not be an issue in most marriages, but it shows us something that can cause problems...The post Being Ho

I had an email from one of you asking about using the F-word in marriage as a way to describe a sex act. The writer also mentioned most of the common euphemisms for sex lack passion. Its a great question, and I want to...The post Friday Flashback: The

Ive been playing with an AI art generator, thinking it could provide me with some post images. So far, its not been much help. The image here was generated with the prompt middle age couple on couch kissing. The image it okay, but theres...The post

On Fridays I run a post from the past. I am currently working from April of 2012. Back then, my life was a lot busier. I was working a forty hour a week job, we were not yet taking a Sabbath rest every week,...The post Marriage: Are You Mailing It In? a