So yesterday was National Handjob day. When you hear handjob you probably think of her hand making you come. But what about your hand making her come? For most women, a handjob is easier and easier to accept than other forms of sex. She...The post Mak

Are you tired of hearing about date night? I dont mention it as often as I should, but its all over the place, like its some magic solution to every marriage problem there is. Date night is not all that, but it is an...The post Friday Flashback: Why D

I was skimming an otherwise forgettable article about marriage recently, that had one comment I really liked. It talked about acknowledging our spouses otherness. Apparently, otherness is a fairly new concept. It is defined as seeing how your spouse is

One of the worship songs we regularly sing at church is Casting Crowns Thrive. The last time we sang it, I realised a couple of the lines are what I keep suggesting here: Its time for us to more than just survive We were...The post Marriage: Its Tim

How do you show your wife love? Do you think she knows you do those things to show her your love? How does she show you love? Do you know she does those things to show love? May I suggest you take some time... The post Do You Recognise What She Does To Sh

Lori knows a woman who says, I love sex. But I have zero desire for it. Apparently she has never felt sexual desire before foreplay causes physical arousal. But she has learned that her husband knows how to get her going, and that she...The post The Ro

This is a follow-up to Crisis and drama and arguments, OH MY! What if you see the problem, and you are trying to end it, but your wife wont stop? Worse yet, what if youre stopping just makes her more upset? I generally agree...The post Friday Flashback

Every so often, some fellow drops a comment here saying that women initiate the majority of divorces. The implication is that women are bad, men are good, and the great number of divorces we have are women’s fault. Of course, stating a valid statistic...

Lori and I joined a marriage group that was going to go through Timothy Kellers The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God. Something jumped out at me as I listened to last weeks chapter: Within this Christian.

Every day this week, sometime in the evening, ask your wife how her day was. Then really listen. For at least five minutes. I post this as a Monday simple idea because it is simple. It may be difficult for you, but it’s simple... The post Cultivating Conn