We ran a Facebook poll asking why women say no to sex. Here is what we found with 178 women answering. As with any web based survey, I cant claim the results are representative of the population as a whole, but I can tell...The post Friday Flashback: Wh

Im putting this under things Jesus said about marriage, but its a bit different. A couple of weeks ago, our pastor was teaching on the end of the sixth chapter of Mark. Immediately, Jesus made his disciples get into the boat and go on...The post Strugg

I have, far too slowly, learned that my wife has different tolerances than I have. When I say tolerances, I mean how long she will put up with something, or how bad it has to get before she loses it. In some place she... The post Understanding Your Wife’s

So its football season again. I know for some of you that is cause for great rejoicing. I also know that for some wives, its cause for despair. Football widow is a real thing, and its not a good thing. If your wife feels...The post Dont Make Your Wif

Last week, I talked about getting free from all the lies and garbage that keep us from having the kind of sex God wants us to have. Okay, but how do you actually do that? A great starting place is to learn what God... The post God Calls You to Passionate,

Have you ever felt you had to do something but you had no idea what to do? Maybe you thought doing nothing would make you look stupid or indecisive. Truth is, doing nothing is a choice, and sometimes its a very wise choice. Good...The post Friday Flas

More of what Jesus said about being a good husband: Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. ~ MT 7:1-2 ESV Yes,... The post Avoid Judging Your Wife

Over on The XY Code, I did a rerun last week that I modified based on a discussion Chris of Honeycomb & Spice and I had in the comments of the original post. I think that discussion is worth sharing with you gentlemen. Chris...The post Do Your Part Even

Its been a while since I encouraged you to massage your wife. Her hands, feet, shoulders, back, butt, legs, whatever. Just rub her! If you have learned where she carries tension, work on that. Learn what muscles get sore, and how to make them...The post

Over the last eighteen months, both Lori and I have healed and grown a great deal sexually. Weve had a good sex life for a long time, but we still both had struggles because of the rubbish we got as children, teens, and young...The post Seek God to Free