One huge thing in the Why I say no to sex survey was a lack of time. Both men and women say no to sex because theyre too tired. Unless you have a new baby, being tired most of the time probably means youre...The post Friday Flashback: The Sin Of Busyne

Another look at how Jesus would have us love our wives. Im going to use a Pauline text for this one, but the idea is certainly found in how Jesus calls us to behave. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and...The post Love Sacrifices fi

I was recently reminded of how powerful a force habit can be. I generally work on posts in the late afternoon and evening. Occasionally I do it in the morning. But after lunch is set aside for physical labour. Last week, my son...The post Be Sensitive

Those of us who reside north of the equator are moving into winter. That means less sunlight, which can affect mood. So find a way to light things up for your wife. Candles are a good choice, and you can add some nice scents... The post Brighten Your Wife

I want to talk about sexual quantity vs quality today but not the way we usually do. This is not about the argument some couples have, with her being all about quality while he is starving and only cares about greater quantity. What...The post Is Too

This is one of the most significant and potentially marriage-changing posts I’ve ever done. It’s simple, it’s easy, and it can have a massive effect on your wife, your marriage, and your sex life. Please take this seriously, and give it a real try.... The

This is a follow-up on yesterdays post about how clutter affects women. In his book entitled Goodbye, Things, minimalist Fumio Sasaki introduced the idea of the silent to-do list. He suggested that our possessions send us silent messages. Wash me, charge

Im a messy. Always have been, always will be. Ive tried to be less messy for my wifes sanity, but its an effort. Clutter drives my wife crazy. I dont see it. Ive always assumed it doesnt affect me, or affects me far less,...The post Clutter Cou

Does your wife ask you freely for what she wants and needs from you? If she has learned youre stingy or will make fun of her, she will only come to you when she feels she absolutely must. On the other hand, if you...The post Does Your Wife Feel Free to

Last week I talked about how the Bible shows us God intended married couples to have great sex, and plenty of it. One of the things that gets in the way of this is deciding we dont deserve good sex, or sex at all....The post You Deserve Great Sex in You