Most of us daydream about what we would do if we won or inherited a great deal of money. What if someone could give you more time? What if you suddenly had 28 hour days an extra four hours a day with nothing...The post FF: If You Had More Time: Uncover

This week Im in El Paso, Texas attending a preaching workshop with the rest of the preaching team from our church. A decade ago, I could never have imagined attending such an event. It was about ten years ago, my pastor challenged me to...The post Embra

Last Tuesday I did a post about trauma. When I got to the coffee shop that morning, two of my friends from church were discussing the post, and one said it was probably his favourite Ive ever done. Then I get home and see...The post Addressing Past Trau

You cant fix something if you dont know how it works. And if you try, you will probably make things worse. If you have no idea how a car works, opening the hood when it wont start isnt going to help. And if you...The post Trying to Fix Without Unders

I have a friend who had a significant stroke some years ago. Among other things, it messed up his sense of taste. He told me he was taught to retrain his sense of taste by choosing one type of food and eating that multiple... The post Retraining Your Sexu

You may have noticed I amon a bit of amarginkickrecently. So, a post about sex and margin was inevitable I havesaid, andshown, that tiredness and busyness are major sex killers for women. Since margin is all about being less tired and less busy, th

Tuesday, I asked you to not minimise the trauma in your past. Today, I want to urge you to not minimise the trauma your wife has suffered. Its easy to dismiss our wifes trauma as insignificant because we dont understand it. Aside from gender...The pos

Lori and I have been reading Redeeming Heartache by Dan B. Allender and Cathy Loerzel. Its an excellent but difficult and painful read, about how our childhood traumas can affect us for the rest of our lives if we dont deal with them. The...The post Tr

As we celebrate April Fools day, allow me to remind you that your wife is no ones fool, and should never be treated like a fool by you. This includes making her the butt of a joke or sharing anything about her that could...The post Honoring Your Wife:

Over on the Marriage Bed forum, there was a discussion of chore play the idea that a man can get more sex by doing chores. One fellow cleverly called it tat for tit. Most men who have tried this approach find it doesnt...The post The Truth About Ch