Many wives are hungry for more non-sexual touch. Massage is a great way to provide that. Start with her feet, or her hands if her feet are ticklish. Once she knows you dont expect sex as payment, you can move on to other areas....The post The Power of N

Do you ever get frustrated because your wife wont tell you what she wants in bed? Youd do pretty much anything to make sex great for her, but she wont give you a clue. There are a few common reasons for this: She doesnt...The post Why Wont She Tell

Ever heard someone say, more divorces are caused by ______ than anything else or the top causes of divorce are _____, _____ and _____? I did a quick Google search on the top causes of divorce from the first five experts I could find....The post F

There is one simple cause of virtually all divorces: selfishness. We are selfish creatures, every last one of us. Our selfishness causes us to focus too much on our wifes selfishness, and not enough on our selfishness. And she does the same in reverse...

A few years ago, we had a link to a Christian web source for getting marriage help. Sadly, they didnt make a go of it. Today I want to introduce you to Aldrich Ministries, which is building an online Christian coaching system. They started...The post Al

So this is my wifes birthday month. Shes not a party person, and not into major gifts. But Ive still done things to celebrate her birthday, both at home and with others. My wife is very important to me, and celebrating her birth is...The post Celebrat

A few days ago, I told you to not punish behaviour you want to see. Today I want to talk about how we do that with sex. One common way we do this is by asking for sex and then turning down what she... The post Avoid Punishing Desired Behavior in Sex first

Weve all heard people dont change, only change in small ways, or only change when faced with extreme situations. All of these are lies, and double-edged lies at that. When we buy into these lies, we treat others as if they wont change, giving...The po

Over on Quora, someone suggested its unintelligent to punish the behaviour you want. I mean, this should be obvious, but I see husbands punishing desired behaviour all the time. Some examples: Your wife is rarely on time, and when she is, you act shock

I recently tossed this marriage tip out on the social media platform formerly known was Twitter: Mercy talking and mercy date nights are as good for her as mercy sex is for you. #MarriageTip If something is important to your wife, doing it under... The po