Let's face it: breaking rules feels good. Breaking the rules helps us feel free and brings the thrills of new and novel experiences. Breaking the rules helps us relieve the stress and responsibility of daily life. Breaking the rules has an erotic thrill that can't easily be topped.

Many people break the rule of monogamy to find these thrills. But the cost of this transgression is often devastating.

Here's how to break an even bigger set of rules - together as a couple - to capture the thrills of transgression while strengthening your relationship.