Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics


Latest Episodes

How To Try New Things In Bed
October 09, 2025

In this encore episode from our archives, we share a classic Pleasure Mechanics framework that makes it easier to try new things in bed, lowering the stakes and clearing the way to learn new skills, g

How To Initiate More Intimacy
September 25, 2025

Heres how to initiate more intimacy, affection and erotic connection. Initiating can be vulnerable, scary and intimidating but it doesnt have to be. The more you practice, the easier it gets and y

Erotic Attitudes Inventory
September 12, 2025

What Erotic Attitudes do you yearn for? All too often, we focus on acts rather than the attitudes we bring to these acts and this can leave us deeply unsatisfied or even frustrated. By zooming in on

Creating Arcs of Arousal
August 29, 2025

Tune in and discover a game-changing framework that updates outdated, inaccurate and limiting models of arousal. Creating Arcs of Arousal invites you to allow an open-ended, expansive experience of ro

Getting Started with Sensation Play
August 14, 2025

Sensation Play opens up a vast world of pleasure, if we dare to explore what our sensory bodies are truly capable of. Heres how to get started with Sensation Play, starting with the every day sensati

Fingerbang F Yeah
August 04, 2025

Hands are the most underrated pleasure tool, and this episode is an irreverent ode to the fine art of Fingerbanging. We share why this is one of personal favorite erotic acts and invite you to explore

Integrating Toys Into Partnered Play
July 19, 2025

What pleasure and intimacy could you unlock if you integrated more toys into your partnered play? Many of us have surefire pleasure tools that we use solo and yet dont bring into the bedroom with our

The Myths and Magic of Masturbation
July 04, 2025

Join us for a rousing and stimulating conversation about the magic and myths of masturbation! For this episode we are in conversation with psychologist and professor Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons and Dan

Your Sexy Staycation
June 20, 2025

Many people report having the best sexual experiences while on vacation but you dont have to wait for an expensive vacation to enjoy all the benefits of Vacation Sex! In this episode, we unpack the

Primal Play
June 06, 2025

Primal play is a realm many of us crave, but rarely talk about. What does it mean to go primal or become primal or play primal like so many of us say we want? What do we really crave when we tal