Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Latest Episodes
How To Try New Things In Bed
In this encore episode from our archives, we share a classic Pleasure Mechanics framework that makes it easier to try new things in bed, lowering the stakes and clearing the way to learn new skills, g
How To Initiate More Intimacy
Heres how to initiate more intimacy, affection and erotic connection. Initiating can be vulnerable, scary and intimidating but it doesnt have to be. The more you practice, the easier it gets and y
Erotic Attitudes Inventory
What Erotic Attitudes do you yearn for? All too often, we focus on acts rather than the attitudes we bring to these acts and this can leave us deeply unsatisfied or even frustrated. By zooming in on
Creating Arcs of Arousal
Tune in and discover a game-changing framework that updates outdated, inaccurate and limiting models of arousal. Creating Arcs of Arousal invites you to allow an open-ended, expansive experience of ro
Getting Started with Sensation Play
Sensation Play opens up a vast world of pleasure, if we dare to explore what our sensory bodies are truly capable of. Heres how to get started with Sensation Play, starting with the every day sensati
Fingerbang F Yeah
Hands are the most underrated pleasure tool, and this episode is an irreverent ode to the fine art of Fingerbanging. We share why this is one of personal favorite erotic acts and invite you to explore
Integrating Toys Into Partnered Play
What pleasure and intimacy could you unlock if you integrated more toys into your partnered play? Many of us have surefire pleasure tools that we use solo and yet dont bring into the bedroom with our
The Myths and Magic of Masturbation
Join us for a rousing and stimulating conversation about the magic and myths of masturbation! For this episode we are in conversation with psychologist and professor Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons and Dan
Your Sexy Staycation
Many people report having the best sexual experiences while on vacation but you dont have to wait for an expensive vacation to enjoy all the benefits of Vacation Sex! In this episode, we unpack the
Primal Play
Primal play is a realm many of us crave, but rarely talk about. What does it mean to go primal or become primal or play primal like so many of us say we want? What do we really crave when we tal