We received a letter from a dedicated husband who wanted to make sure his wife was having all the right kind of orgasms, like his girlfriends in the past. In this week's podcast, we set him straight. First, we clear up the persistent myths about "types" of orgasms. Then, we focus him in the most positive direction: making sure his wife is having an amazing time in bed, rather than comparing her experience to ghosts from the past. Finally, we share tips for anyone who wants to amp up the intensity of their own orgasm. We give you strategies for both the giver and the receiver to fully maximize the orgasmic intensity you seek.