Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics


SoS #071: Stop Faking Orgasms: Here's How

January 09, 2015

Did you know that 80% of women fake orgasms at least half the time? Many men fake orgasms too! 

Here's how to start getting real with your lover so you can stop faking and start making love that is truly satisfying.


We also discuss whether or not you should disclose to your lover if you've been faking orgasms all along.




Here's the letter that inspired this episode:


"Hey guys, I have a situation I'm hoping you can help me with. I am 28, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He just proposed and I said yes. The problem is, I've been faking orgasm for our entire relationship. If I'm going to marry the guy I want to be honest with him and work on having better sex. How do I tell him I've been faking without crushing his ego? Sex feels good but not great. I can easily have orgasms when I am alone, but with him I usually don't get all the way there. I've had a few orgasms with him, mostly during oral sex. But the rest of the time, I fake to get it over with. Should I tell him?" ~ Meghan



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