A listener writes in with a question about porn. She knows her husband watches porn, and feels threatened by his desire for the women in the videos - especially once she realizes that porn turns HER on too! What should she do? Watch porn with him? Ask him not to watch porn? Should she share her own turn-on? We weigh in and talk about the role of porn as visual fantasy and the bottom line: porn will never compare to the pleasure and intimacy of a real relationship!