In this episode, we answer a listener's question about how to have anal sex that hurts less so she can please her boyfriend. We share how to have pain-free anal sex that is completely pleasurable and arousing for both partners. Anal sex has a bad reputation as a rough, nasty, painful sex act. We say it never has to hurt, can be a totally arousing part of a woman's sexual expression and can be a beautiful inclusion for any couple's sex life.