Lonely? Heartbroken? Feeling like an erotic failure? Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön offers words of wisdom about the true nature of failure.

Everyone feels like a failure in the realm of romance and sex at one point or another - here's how to transform those feelings into an opportunity for growth and healing.

"Failure opens an unguarded, vulnerable and wide open space. And from that space the best part of ourselves comes out"