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16. When did I stop enjoying my kids? Knowing your vision and values. The best waffles ever.
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Over a year ago I realized that I had come to a place in my daily life where I constantly thought about getting a break for my kids. I was struck with this shameful realization that I stopped enjoying my kids and being a mother. This past year I had one goal in parenting, to focus on enjoying my kids.
I shared my story with what that looked like and what I learned from it.
It is a long post (read it here), so I can't cover it all in the podcast episode. Three big takeaways are
1/ We find what we are looking for. When all I looked for was a break, that was the problem my brain wanted to solve. I needed to give my brain a new problem to solve, one that empowered me.
2/ I am more fun than I thought. Through enjoying my kids, I am enjoying my life more because I am having more fun in my daily life...